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Vered Benhorin Makes Children’s Music for Parents Who Are Tired

  • Writer: The Real Ding
    The Real Ding
  • 8 hours ago
  • 2 min read

Many family albums describe childhood from an ideal distance. Vered Benhorin writes closer to the floor, where someone is crying, the diaper still needs to be changed, and a toddler has found a new way to delay getting dressed.


Her upcoming album, Adorable You, is filled with those recognizable situations. Due August 7, the record includes songs about mornings, buttons, tummy time, calming down, going outside, and the complicated logistics of caring for a small child. Its latest single, “Mama Loves You,” provides a quiet emotional anchor.


The song tells a child that they are loved for who they are, with no achievement required. That assurance is delivered plainly, without the grand language that can make songs about parental love feel detached from a normal afternoon at home.


Benhorin understands that parents may listen to this music while distracted, depleted, or managing several things at once. Her work through Baby in Tune has centered on meeting families within their actual routines rather than asking them to create an entirely new set of activities.


That practical perspective separates Adorable You from music designed primarily to entertain children while adults tune out. Benhorin’s songs are intended to be used between parent and child. The parent sings, moves, plays, or settles alongside the baby, making the recording part of an interaction.


The album also makes room for the less polished emotions of caregiving. Benhorin has spoken about the ability to feel grateful and frustrated within minutes, or to love a child completely while still wanting a break. A playful song such as “Buttons” can turn a recurring source of tension into something a family recognizes and laughs about.



Other songs serve a more regulating function. “Calming,” for example, is based on the reassurance that a parent can remain present even when they cannot immediately stop a child from crying. This approach resists the idea that successful parenting requires solving every uncomfortable feeling.


“Mama Loves You” follows the same logic. A parent does not need to manufacture the perfect phrase at the perfect moment. Repeating a simple message can matter, particularly when so much of a child’s environment is organized around expectations and evaluation.


Benhorin’s credentials as a psychotherapist and music therapist inform the album, but the music is not presented as clinical material. Pop melodies, vocal harmonies, humor, and repetition carry the concepts. The goal is usability rather than instruction.


Her son Peleg helped shape that sound. Now 17, he worked on the album as a songwriter and producer, contributing an ear for contemporary pop and dense harmony. His involvement creates an unusual bridge between the album’s audience of babies and caregivers and Benhorin’s own experience parenting a child approaching adulthood.


Peleg was the baby who first showed Benhorin how singing could create a moment of connection. The pair made Adorable You before his departure for college, giving the album a reflective undertone beneath its practical songs.



That history is moving, but the record remains grounded in present-tense family life. It is made for people trying to get through mornings, errands, meals, playtime, and bedtime while preserving some sense of closeness.


A release performance will take place August 5 at J.J. Byrne Playground outside Brooklyn’s Old Stone House. “Mama Loves You” is available now, and Adorable You follows August 7.


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